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What steps will reproduce the problem?
using http://elysium-craft.info/WebInterface/login.php
I get the following error

Warning: mysql_connect() [function.mysql-connect]: Lost connection to MySQL server at 'reading initial communication packet', system error: 110 in /home/content/15/7657915/html/WebInterface/scripts/config.php on line 59
Unable to connect to databaseLost connection to MySQL server at 'reading initial communication packet', system error: 110

System error 110 is a connection timeout error.
I am able to connect to the SQL database from home. The SQL server allows all connections provided the correct password. So I know that I can connect to it.

My config.php is
$db_host        = 'mc.elysium-craft.info:3306';
$db_user        = 'username';
$db_pass        = 'password';
$db_database    = 'webauction';

I have tried with and without the port number and by IP address, I get the same error every time.

I am able to telnet into mc.elysium-craft.info:3306 as well. Is there some website setting I am missing?

THis is a server running centos 5

I have SElinux dissabled and iptables turned off

There is literally nothing that should or is blocking my connection proof being that I can telnet and login via SQL administrator

what is going on!

if you're connecting to a remote database, you have to add permission for that database user to accept connections from the ip of your other server.